Caitlin and Jess Gray, a queer couple based in Detroit, dreamed of having a baby for as long as they can remember — someone other than their dog to shower in kisses and love. Three years ago, ...

Whether you want to blame rom-coms, magazines, or Boomers, people grow up learning that conception will look like marrying the love of their life, deciding "it's time," then "pulling the goalie," and ...